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And I have been considering moving to Hartford as the company that owns the TV station I work for has one in Hartford. I also have family with my sis in CT and my mom in Agawam, MA. Based on the comments here, it seems the community is pretty friendly and that is reassuring that there are some hangouts to connect with others.
There is not a traditional gay sauna or bathhouse in Palm Springs, however, All World Resorts has cruising and hookup areas and sells day and night passes, as does CCBC over in Cathedral City.